Should you stay or should he go?

If you can't seem to reach a decision, this "decision tree" will help you get clarity.

It was only when I asked and answered the hard questions contained inside this exercise, that I was able to let go of a 12-year relationship that was just not working for me. Not only wasn't it working, but it was keeping me from finding a healthy relationship and love that would. 

I'd spent too much time looking for what I wanted outside of myself, armchair diagnosing my partner as to why he wasn't giving me what I wanted. But that wasn't productive because he wasn't the issue. I was.

What I'd believed about myself and what I deserved from love had me standing in my own way, making the wrong choices, going down the wrong rabbit holes, leading me to frustration, disappointment, and heartbreak over and over and over... 

As I worked through the questions and exercises in this tool, I came to learn that I had the power to create change all along within myself. That I didn't need anybody else to get where I wanted to go. That clinging to limiting beliefs had me making the wrong choices for myself.

Once I understood that, I was able to get out of my own way by creating new beliefs. Making different decisions. Taking new actions.

And, most importantly, identifying and letting go of what no longer served in finding the love and life I'd always wanted. 

It's my deepest desire for you to have the same experience. 

With that said, I hope that, once you work your way through these materials, you'll share your experience and let me know how it goes for you. Write to me at jill@letgoforit.com and let me know. Once again, thank you so very much for subscribing. I look forward to getting to know you!

What will it be, keeper or dud?